[SIZE 3][/SIZE]Apparently, the "Icebreaker" feature will make you think I looked at your profile. I probably didn't. [/SIZE] [SIZE 2][B] [COLOR red]I only look at the profiles of men who have VIEWED MINE FIRST AND ONLY if:[/COLOR][/B][/SIZE] 1. They have a picture 2. Are LOCAL (within 20-30 minutes) to my area. 3. Are between 65-75 and are white [SIZE 2][COLOR blue][B]IF you do NOT meet ALL of the 3 criteria above, then I did NOT LOOK at your profile, REGARDLESS of what it says on Your "VIEWED ME" page!![/B][/COLOR] [/SIZE] In other words, I do not "troll" profiles. If you actually think that I keep looking at your profile, and you do not meet the BASIC criteria above, well, sorry to disappoint you but it's the automatic "Icebreaker" feature doing it. [br] Now, about me. I'm a happy, contented, smart, intelligent, reasonably attractive, sensual & independent lady. I know who and what I am. I know what I do and do NOT want. [br] I'm looking for an intelligent, well educated & refined gentleman who knows how to treat a lady like a lady but is also able to respect that lady's intelligence, capabilities and independence without being intimidated. A sense of humor, dependability, & honesty are also key attributes. That means you've grown up and don't act like an over-aged . The previous sentence is especially addressed to you men who cannot accept rejection and need to throw hissy-fits & resort to sending insulting, profanity laced e-mails. Doing so just is immature and pathetic.[br] I have many and varied interests, some of which include reading, traveling, the NY Times Crossword puzzle, cooking, dining out. I am well traveled & have been to Europe several times; also to Canada, Mexico, Tahiti (South Pacific), the Caribbean, and most of the USA including Hawaii. If I'm going to go somewhere on Vacation, it will be to Western Europe or the South Pacific. [br][br]While I like being outdoors, I am NOT "Outdoorsy". Think along the lines of lying by the pool with a good book and a frozen daiquiri or strolling around NYC. [b]I do NOT like fishing, camping, hunting, hiking, nor ANYTHING involving motorcycles, etc. [/b] [br] [B][COLOR crim]NOTE TO MARRIED and/or ATTACHED MEN[/COLOR]:[/B][br]Any man who is looking for a woman for intimate companionship outside his marriage or committed relationship is a liar & a cheater. I have NO desire to spend time with liars & cheaters. It would be a waste of my time to do so. [br] I'm NOT interested in being a "booty call" for any man traveling to the area. As a matter of fact, I'm NOT interested in NSA sex or an FWB arrangement for any reason. I only am interested in sex with the right per [I]which means someone who is emotionally available and open to the [B]possibility [/B][/I]of a LTR. [br]If you want to "talk" to me, send an email. I don't send out "flirts" nor do I "hot list" anyone. [BR] Your profile MUST have some written information on what you are looking for in a relationship. If you cannot do more than "fill-in-the-blanks", it only shows me someone who is lazy & not willing to work at finding someone compatible. Sending a banal copy/paste my e-mail is not enough to interest me. I It would be very nice for someone to show some ACTUAL interest by telling me what he found interesting in my profile. Is that really all that difficult?[SIZE 4][/SIZE][COLOR blue][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person
What I should like to find:
I want a friend first. There needs to be a mental connection. I only am interested in men who fit the following criteria:

Have at least a MINIMUM of a "G-rated" faceless body picture posted on your profile. Save the lame excuses for not having any picture posted.

STRAIGHT Don't bother me if you're a Bi-man, a woman, or a couple!!
If you are "bi-curious", looking for bi, TS/TV, then YOU ARE NOT A STRAIGHT MAN!!!

SINGLE (that means divorced, widowed or never married). "Separated" still is MARRIED and I'm not interested in MARRIED men.
If you have a steady girlfriend or Significant Other upon whom you are cheating, YOU'RE NOT SINGLE!!
I'm NOT interested in your "complicated situation" or "my wife/partner no longer is interested in sex" or other lame reasons that you CHEAT! If you're unhappy with your wife/girlfriend, MAN UP, GROW A PAIR and get a divorce or leave the relationship before you go out with other women.

WELL EDUCATED (at least be a graduate of a 4 year college)

Age range between 65-75.
(How nice for you that you are attracted to older women. The point is that I am NOT attracted to significantly younger men.)


Please be witty, intelligent, respectful, & reasonably attractive.
I do NOT like tattoos nor piercings so if you have this sort of "decoration", you are not for me.
I'm only attracted to WHITE men; (NOT Black men nor men of any other races.)

I'm not attracted to short men, so please be at LEAST 5'9". I'm NOT attracted to fat (heavyset, stocky, or whatever euphemism you have for "fat'' ) men, so please be height/weight proportional.
I do NOT smoke and have NO interest in any man who smokes at all!

I most DEFINITELY am NOT interested in other women nor couples. That means you!!

You need to be LOCAL which means that you ACTUALLY need to LIVE within 20 - 30 minutes actual driving time of the Pike Creek area of Wilmington, DE. That does NOT mean men who are in the Greater Philadelphia-Wilmington area on business, traveling to the area, or "spends a few days a week" in this area. I hope this is clear.

I appreciate the interest of men who do not fit what I have outlined above, but your interest will NOT be reciprocated.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bruce Springsteen, Rolling Stones, The Who, Beach Boys,
Anything60s and/or Motown

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Depends on with whom

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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